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An
advance directive, sometimes called a living will, is an important legal
document used to express your wishes about your end of life care.
In an advance directive you document the care you do or do not
want, who will make decisions for you if you cannot make them yourself,
and how the decisions will be implemented. Most states have established
guidelines for advance directives. The
Caring Connections web site offers visitors a model advance directive for
each state. You can save the advance directive to your computer and fill
it in. A copy of the advance
directive can be given to your doctor, family, attorney, and your
designated durable power of attorney.
The
act of completing an advance directive is an excellent opportunity to
discuss with your family and doctor exactly what it is that you do or do
not wish to have done and who you want to make decisions for you. When you
designate a durable power of attorney you give whoever you name the
ability to make health care decisions for you should you not be able to
make those decisions.
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Advance
directives can be changed at any time in writing by letting your
health care agent and doctor know.
Destroy all the old advance directives and complete a new copy.
Give the new copy to your doctor, family, attorney, and the person you
have designated with durable power of attorney. Keep extra copies of your
advance directives at hand just in case you have an emergency trip to the
hospital. Hospitals in the United
States are required to ask patients if they have an advance directive.
Take a copy of your advance directive with you to the hospital or ask
while you are there for someone to help you complete an advance directive.
You
may make the decision that you do not want resuscitation. Your doctor will
write at the patient or family’s direction a DNR order. DNR stands for
“Do Not Resuscitate”. This means if you stop breathing or your heart
stops, doctors and nurses will not perform cardiopulmonary resuscitation
(CPR) to get your heart beating again and your lungs working.
Usually doctors and nurses focus on helping
people get well. When
someone’s heart stops or they stop breathing, health professionals will
do CPR unless the doctor, at the direction of the patient and family, has
written a DNR order. For people at the end of life it may not be
appropriate to try to keep restarting the heart, artificially keep the
lungs working, or maintaining an airway. There comes a point when we all
die. You, your family, and your doctor will need to decide when that time
has come. When doctors ask about a DNR order, they are indicating they
believe the time has come.
They are changing the focus to treatment that will be less
traumatic. You may or may not decide you want a DNR order. This is a
decision only you and your family can make.
It’s
a disturbing fact, but according to a report by the National Hospice and
Palliative Care Organization, sometimes advance directives, even when
present, are not followed. It’s in your best interest to do more than
just hand over your advance directive document; let there be no
misunderstanding. Make a point of talking about it with your doctor and
with the hospital staff. Yes, death can be hard to talk about; many health
care professionals and lay people see it as a failure of modern medicine.
But the fact is, it is inevitable for us all.
Written by Linda Miller, RN, MA
Edited by Rachael Myers Lowe, cancerpage.com
This page was last edited on 04/18/2008
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